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I have known john since junior high school. We have been
together since 1970 and married Oct. 26, 1973. Our life
together was full of fun, laughter, and love. John who I
called Mull, and he called me Weez, it sounded like two
old soles and that's what we had planned. I always felt that
John and I were meant to be together. Even though our time
together was not as long as planned, we had something many
people don't find in a lifetime.
Our love was unconditional. John had a way of making me
feel at ease, he was a good listener and was always there
to help never expecting anything in return. He was a wonderful
husband and father. He loved watching his children grow,
play sports, and play musical instruments. He was always
there encouraging his family and showing his support. No
matter what you asked of him, if it was in his power, John
would do it. He was a fun loving easygoing person who had
the love and respect of many people, whom he showed the
same gratitude.
He was my rock, he had seen me at my worst and still he
loved me. He was always patient and kind. I knew no matter
what was going on in our lives we could talk and he would
truly listen. John had the greatest sense of humor, he often
joked that his dream was to retire and run a hotdog cart by
the beach. John had an infectious smile he loved his family,
his friends, and his antique fire truck. He was the love
of my life.
Louise Mullen
Branford, CT

I met John in 1997 when I was hired as a Metro North PO.
I worked with him for three years. My best times as a PO
were with John as my boss. He taught me a tremendous amount
about policing on the RR. When I was promoted to Sergeant
in '02 I frequently reached out to John for his advise about
handling various situations. I loved the guy.
Rest in peace.
Alexander Lindsay
Kings Park, NY

To the Mullen Family,
John was a wonderful, caring, fun, loving guy. May fond
memories help ease the pain. May you keep his memory eternal
and always know his spirit is around. God bless, love & prayers, Anna
Anna Antonakis Becker
Branford, CT

Our sincere condolences to the entire Mullen Family. John
was a good gentle man with a big heart. His laughter and
jokes will be missed.
Stephen & Susan McCabe
Great Falls, MT

I knew John for 10 years since joining the Fraternal Order
of Police and enjoyed his company and the direction he provided
to the Connecticut Fraternal Order of Police. He will be
greatly missed.
Paul Lamson
Danbury, CT

My heart is so sad to hear about John's passing. He was
another "big brother" to me as we grew up on the
4th Ward. I remember so may fun times with John and my brother
Richard. I would see John around town and he always made
me smile. We would talk about our families and would catch
up on what everyone was doing.
We lost my brother Bob on Monday and I know they are together
sharing memories, having a beer (or two), and watching over
us forever.
My mother Evalyn Gladdys who also loves John very much
enjoyed their lunches at Meadow Muffins. He was my adopted
"God Son" she told me today.
Paula Gladdys
Branford, CT

From when we were 6 years old until we were 18 or so John
and I saw each other every day of our lives. John, John
Haroskiwicz and me terrorized the Fourth Ward of Branford.
Time has separated us for decades now.
I saw John Monday when my family was going to say good by
to my brother Bob Gladdys.
On the way we passed a room and saw John. I said "Hey
Johney what are you doing in here" He was smiling and
he pointed to his heart and laughing said "I had the
big one". We both knew it was a joke.
Now I grieve for my old friend. Death is sudden and cruel
sometimes.
I wanted to speak to him on our way out. Bob did pass away
also. But he was sleeping.
I wanted to talk to John and tell him about Bob passing.
The next day Paula called Giovanni and heard of John's passing.
John Patrick Mullen allowed me to be Irish only on this
Birthday when we were growing up. His Father was such a
fine man and Officer. I was so glad when John followed the
family tradition.
John was one that gave to others many times by putting his
own life in harms way, selflessly. We were Cadets in the
Fire Department together. We fought some tough fires together.
We rode our bikes in all the parades, weaving in and out
of the marchers until we were chased away.
We were Altar Boys together. We were in Boy Scouts together.
To the family of my friend: your Father, Husband, Brother,
I grieve with you for a true Hero. My Prayers and Blessings
are for you.
John Patrick Mullen was a great man that served his community.
John, you were the best friend a kid could have.
Richard Gladdys
Plymouth, MA

I was shocked to hear of the passing of John. My condolences
to the family. I have known him for the past 20 years from
his frequent visits to Giovanni Auto Repair. He was always
willing to help out wherever he could and his attitude was
always upbeat. I loved listening to his stories and jokes.
I will sorely miss John's visits as I am sure all at Giovanni's
will. We will all keep him in our hearts and prayers!
Jackie Clince
Hamden, Conn. USA

Mrs. Mullen, Shawn, and Kathleen,
I was very saddened to hear of Mr. Mullen's passing. He
was a kind man and will be missed by so many people. I am
truly thankful that I knew him. The Candy Cane Express won't
be the same without him. Please accept my condolences on
behalf of myself and The David Hwang Foundation.
Theresa Fichter
East Haven, CT

Uncle John was a fun, loving, and caring man. He will be
missed very much by all. I remember all of the fun times
we had with him over the house and how he used to joke with
us all. He always wanted to make sure we got a good education
and career we were happy with. And like him, my father and
our grandfather i too chose the path of criminal justice,
but not a cop though, instead to help the victims of crimes.
There's so much I can say about him, and I will cherish
the memories forever. My wishes go out to Aunt Louise, Kat,
and Shawn and the rest of my family who lost a great man.
He will never be forgotten. I love you.
Jennifer Mullen
Branford, CT

The brothers and sisters of the Connecticut Fraternal Order
of Police wish to express our deepest sympathies to the
Mullen family and also to those brother and sister officers
of the MTA Police Department. Our thoughts and prayers are
with you all. We will miss him.
Connecticut Fraternal Order of Police
New Britain, CT

I wish to extend my deepest condolences to you Louise,
Tommy, and Sharyneilleen. To you kids, who arent really
kids any more, the lost is so great. So many years John
and I were together. A man hard as nails, yet, when help
was needed he was there. His heart was good and he meant
well to all. He was rough around the edges, but smooth as
a baby. Over twenty years together you learn a lot about
a person then, there are things which only he knew.
Fred and Rose Chidester Sr Lt CO Ret
Milford, CT

I will always remember the fun we had working together over
the years with the MTA Police, a great boss with a big heart.
My sincere and heart felt condolences to his wife, children,
and to his brother Tommy. He will be missed very much by
our fellow officers
Sean Connolly
Wallingford, CT

I wish to extend my deepest condolences to you and the
Mullen family at this time of loss.
Peter C Ramon (Jr)
Branford, CT

I would like to extend my condolences to you all....my
memories of John will always be remembered through the Bfd.
FD and also Metro-North Railroad. May God grant you the
strength during this time of sorrow.
Bill Cusack
Newport richey, Florida

I loved hanging out in his home growing up. Both Mr. and
Mrs. Mullen were so welcoming. Even when we were hanging
out in the basement long after we should have all gone home,
he'd just laugh as to say, he was a kid once too. I have
very fond memories of him. My thoughts and prayers are with
Shawn and his family.
Alisha McNamarra
Branford, CT

My family and I wish to thank everyone for their kind thoughts
and memories. My father was very proud to be a Police Officer;
he summed up the dedication to his profession to that of
"I wanted to help people". Over 34 years later his job and
the world around us have changed drastically but he held
true the morals he believed in. To all of the people who
knew Dad there was a bond built between them, the relationships
define the considerate man he was. The compassion his family,
friends, and strangers alike received from him will live
on in all of us.
In our family life, his marriage to my mother was incredible.
Our home was made from unconditional love, I've never seen
two people more in love after 33 years, very few people
in this world are so lucky. Strong, nurturing, and funny
he showed me how to enjoy life. He enjoyed humor, and it
was a large part of his personality. Often his best jokes
were true stories.
He encouraged us to love, study, achieve, and be confident.
He wanted what was best in our family's interest, as do all
fathers. My dad had many interests but liked people most
of all. I'm very grateful to have had him as my role model;
he affected every life he touched. He continually gave of
himself and not a day will pass that we will not miss him.
Friend, family, father, husband he was very important to
many people, I've always known that, but he was my dad and
although he is not physically here he will always be with
me in my heart.
Shawn Mullen
Branford, CT |